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February 6th, 2012
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During the toddler and preschool years the word, “No!” becomes a very powerful word. It derails the happy atmosphere, stops a quick exit on errands, means we scoop our little one off the floor in that shop and march out. They want an input. They want a choice.
As a parent you can allow for extra time for the No! We get all forceful and insistent. Neither of these work well overtime. Even we as parents need to practise what to do when we get that No. It’s hard to play with a child that insists on having things their way or you having it totally your way. Personal, social and emotional development is a crucial aspect of play. We need to be able to get along and well. This is the first of a two-part series.
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Practice when you are calm and have a script
Think about what you will say when they are shouting and yelling at you. Replay times when you saw this or experienced this and work out what you could do differently and try it out.
Getting down to their level; looking them in the eye and smile. The smile is for you to calm down however brief. Watch how other people de-escalate their children and try it out.
Identify 2-3 activities at home to regularly give choices
Practise choice activities at home. Choose choices that you are happy with either option. Keep them simple. Children have very few choices so having the red counter or the blue counter when playing the board game may seem trivial to us but they don’t see it that way.
Choices like; clothes, food, activity, play.
- Scrambled eggs or cereal?
- Blue jeans or green trousers with Bob on the side?
- Pretend food or Dolls?
What’s your number one struggle with your under 5?
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August 31st, 2011
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On a recent visit to an Art Gallery in Prague, Czech Republic. I was delighted to come up against these wonderful collages or sculpture by Shalom Tomas Neuman.
Love how everyday toys, electronic items are used to create really zany pictures.
You can see more about the work here,
Art at home does not’ have to be about pen, crayons and paper. Hope you’re inspired from your environment too.
What art work have you taken your little ones to see that you would recommend?
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June 30th, 2011
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Dinner time and play isn’t the first thing that comes to mind with children.
But it’s the one time where we can all connect together with a focus in mind. If you’ve ever struggled with getting a conversation going you’ll know how hard it is to find open ended questions after you’ve spent a good while getting everything ready for the meal. Commonly, we are so exhausted from it all.
This is the sixth monthly edition of the Dinnight play activities. To find out more about check out the other free monthly downloads.
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Download June here
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June 13th, 2011
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Dinner time and play isn’t the first thing that comes to mind with children.
But it’s the one time where we can all connect together with a focus in mind. If you’ve ever struggled with getting a conversation going you’ll know how hard it is to find open ended questions after you’ve spent a good while getting everything ready for the meal. Commonly, we are so exhausted from it all.
This is the fifth monthly edition of the Dinnight play activities. To find out more about check out the other free monthly downloads.
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Download May here
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May 23rd, 2011
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- It’s raining; it’s pouring.
- The old man is snoring.
- He went to bed and bumped his head,
- And he couldn’t get up in the morning
This was the song I could hear being sung early morning on Sunday. Yes! I had planned some outdoor activities and No. I hadn’t remembered to check the weather forecast. Otherwise I would have known it did say showers all day. Lying in bed I had moments before the children would bound in to tell me the news. I could tell from their song that plans would have to change. What do you do when you find yourself with a rainy day and children?
When you’re surprised by a rainy day it’s just the hardest thing to think about how you’ll get through the day. You’re a little sad and they certainly are too so moods often reflect the overcast day from the get go. I started making a list of activities to do for rainy days to overcome that sinking feeling and offering alternative solutions pretty quickly seems to keep everyone from slipping into a despondent mood. Nothing is worse than moody children who when given choices are too fed up to make them Nothing is good enough.
Making this list helped us keep upbeat.
We are in for a lot more rainy days in the future.
1. Water races on the window
Choose a raindrop both of you really quickly. See which one rolls down the window the fastest.
2. Playing in the bath
Bath time is not always about getting clean in our family. It’s a good opportunity for play. Without the pressure of getting clean and getting into bed- your imagination can really get going. There are the usual traditional bath toys but don’t forget foam for your latest masterpiece and making stories with stickies.
3. Sink and water play
Along the same lines as No.2 Bathtime play. When you have time you can have fun with Sink and Water play. Oftentimes, this type of play is an activity they do while we are in the kitchen. So they are “helping” us. It’s a quick activity that ends because dinner is done or you have to leave for an errand. Think of all the things you can do with sink and water play when you have oodles of time. Raid the utensils, blocks, cars. Clean them, wash the dolls hair; colour the water or scent the water. Let both your minds enjoy the creativity that comes with a large sink of water and ample time and a houseful of versatile equipment.
4. Post it note ABC
What to do with the no running rule during a wet day? We try to discourage running in and out of the doors mostly because we have little people of all sizes around. Usually the worst accidents are excited brothers knocking over another brother. But on a wet day there has to be a way to get rid of this excess energy. I’m all for energetic games and running activities but when we all know that’s what’s happening. Post it note ABC works on various levels. We’ve just introduced sound ABC as the MO is learning his sounds using the Jolly phonics program. I must admit it does make us smile seeing them running around the house saying, “MMMMMmmm.” and rubbing their tummy. We like competition but this game is easily changed to collaboration with each child told to bring a different letter. ( Mine actually help each other)
5. Shaving cream
6. Tracing finger on track
Glue doesn’t take long to dry. This is activity can be small scale or on a large scale as well as being totally resuable. Squeezing the glue and concentrating on getting a line or zig zag take plenty of concentration. What child doesn’t like squeezing glue. Here is a legitimate reason for them to squeeze glue while getting in some muscle work and fine motor pracitse. Sssh don’t tell them.
7. Create a sensory tub
Photo credit: Counting Coconuts | Photo credit: No Time for Flashcards | Photo credit: Little Coqui
We have a lot of fun with our sensory tubs at home. They are super easy to make from things you can easily find around the home. This creative
8. Bake
Whether it is the instant cookie dough you have frozen for the friends who pop by or you are a from scratch baker, the smell of baking does wonders for the mood and the belly. If you can keep the staples in your house then this instant mood lifter will cheer everyone up on a damp and dreary day.
9. Make hot chocolate
Cocoa powder and warmed milk whipped. Let the kids add the mini marshmallows or squirty cream. Plus a few sprinkles. The start of your very own Hot chocolate menu. Yes it is easier to buy the ready made hot chocolate that you just add water or milk. But making this simple drink from scratch and having the chance to make a signature hot chocolate drink always gets the boys in our house excited with new ideas. Hot chocolate is made so differently around the world. Spice up your hot chocolate by choosing a new style.
10. Combine all the puzzles in a big heap and make them all.
I’ve talked about our love of puzzles and how we love to get them all out and spend an afternoon fitting them altogether. It’s not as easy now with an active toddler but it’s something we’re trying to encourage him to do as well. This activity has benefits all around. Firstly the children love the mess and chaos of 15 or more puzzles in a massive heap on the floor. They also love the challenge of finding the puzzle and working on several at a time. There’s also the competition that naturally happens and that you can have puzzles that are toddler puzzles up to 50 piece puzzles.
The children can really choose which puzzles to work on. We tend to have music in the background but an audio book works just as well or a podcast. The big bonus I’ve found is that doing this regularly means we find out they have lost X number of puzzle pieces but they also are aware of the lost pieces scattered around the house. We end up with a parade of puzzles which we move through making our very own puzzle gallery. Before each one is destroyed and put back.
11. Make a boxasaurus
Dip into your junk box and find those boxes from the shed or attic you have been saving and have fun making something big. You’ve got the time!
12. Write a story & 13 Tell a story
Photo credit: Childhood 101 | Photo credit: Frugal Family Fun | Photo credit: nurturestore
14: Act out a story with props and puppets
15: Cornflour /paint/gloop
Photo credit: muminthemadhouse
16: I’m bored Jar
Make a jar of activities.
17. Create thumbprint pictures
These are such fun.
Photo credit: The artful parent
18. Listen to audio stories and make your own
With smartphones, and computers it’s really easy to say your own stories or make your own.
Watch and listen to http://www.smories.com/
19. Get out the Manipulatives and create something that combines 2 or more elements
20. Just let them play by themselves
It’s one of those times when they can just………………play by themselves.
21. Cutting paper
That big pile of Sunday papers or recyling comes in really handy here.
22. Recycling art
23: Puddle jumping
Photo credit: One little room
If you can beat the weather then go out in it.
24. Go out and spot rain soaked spiderwebs
25. Get crafty and find a Play Activity
Photo credit: NannaX3
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What do you do on a raining day?
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